By N. Lothungbeni Humtsoe
November 06, 2022 (IANSlife) It is true that people with a disability face inclusivity barriers, not just in India but throughout the world. Ten percent of the world's population, which accounts for roughly 650 million, have a disability and battle ableism on a daily basis.
The problem lies with normal culture not being ready to accept the person with disabilities the way they are and just emulating their feelings towards them. They find it hard to be around specially-abled ones, whether at jobs, in education, or even in relationships. This isn’t limited to a particular locality, this is what people with a disability have to go through.
Remember, “Love is beyond disabilities. It just needs the ability to love, commit, and express feelings” - MatchAble.
However, the challenge doesn't end here; since not all disabilities are apparent, there are stages in a relationship where persons with disabilities need a lot more help and understanding than typical. The unexpected shift in behavior, the need to be understood, and many other issues with invisible disabilities can be difficult. And dealing with it can be a little challenging for other partners. But love can make anything happen, it’s fascinating!
On the note of love and disability, here’s what Minal Sethi, founder of MatchAble- Enabling Boundless Love said, "Like in any other relationship- I believe, one thing you need to constantly keep in mind while dating a person in the community is being patient. And never let the opinions and judgments of others affect any relationship. People will judge, let them!"
Here are five things that will help you date a person with a disability with ease, keeping in mind the needs of the community shared by Minal.
Though the advice doesn’t end here, the more you love, the more you will evolve as the depths are beautiful!
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N. Lothungbeni Humtsoe can be contacted at lothungbeni.h@ians.in