ByIANSlife

February 25, 2022 (IANSlife) In the last decade, the dating world has evolved tremendously. We're still stuck with a lot of ambiguity about various questions and other new dating methods. One of the most contentious issues has been whether one should date a complete stranger or someone they may know, i.e., acquaintances.

Dating App QuackQuack conducted a survey, in which users aged 25 and up participated. There are numerous arguments on both sides of the debate. But, at the end of the day, who won? Let's take a look.

Dating a whole new person is an experience in itself!

If our first date did not go well, it would probably be easier not to see him again (ghosting is easier- not recommended!). After their first date, 10 percent of users have ghosted someone. The independent and fearless emotions that run through one's veins when going out with a stranger get you going. You can be yourself or your naughty self with no one knowing (or care).

One of the most significant benefits of social media has been the ability to socialise. With the advent of dating apps, it is much easier to connect with someone who shares similar interests, and you get to talk to (and even meet!) a lot of new people. It's thrilling to learn about someone from the ground up. Even simple questions such as "What are your hobbies?" can lead to the discovery of something new and exciting. Dating apps, according to 32 percent of users, have made it very easy to meet new people.

One of the most appealing aspects of dating a complete stranger is that you can be with him without any exclusive boundaries. If you're not looking for anything serious or simply want to get over a toxic relationship (who doesn't? ), physical intimacy is something you should look for. Even if you do not connect emotionally or intellectually, if the physical connection is amazing, who is stopping you from pursuing this 'no strings attached' type of relationship? And, as previously stated, it would be simpler to end it with a stranger whenever you want. For physical intimacy, 22 percent of male users are more likely to date a stranger.

If only online dating was as easy as it seems

Of course, there are drawbacks to dating a stranger. The date's physical appearance may differ from their online profile photo. He/she may be dishonest about their age, employment, or ambitions, making it difficult to trust him/her. 18 percent of users believe they are more likely to lie about their actual age, while 12 percent believe they are more likely to lie about their employment status. There may be ideological differences that lead you both down different paths—you may be looking for a serious relationship, whereas he is only looking for a hookup.

But this isn't a problem that can't be fixed. It will be much easier to date a stranger if you communicate openly and ask difficult questions before meeting up. Clarifying each other's expectations in advance is at the heart of online dating. This is agreed upon by 34 percent of users who clarify their expectations before proceeding with the date.

Dating someone you already know is a comfortable choice, but is it the best one?

It is slightly easier to date an acquaintance because you already know something about him/her. You are aware of their strong points and may have witnessed some of their flaws. It would require a more balanced approach to decide whether or not to go out with him/her. You are confident that your date will not abandon you. Conversation starters would be easier to come up with when dating someone you already know, and you would be less likely to feel judged by your thoughts and beliefs. You'll already know what they're looking for: a one-night stand or a soulmate? You could call it a jumpstart to a healthy relationship. 22 percent of users believe they would not mind dating a friend if they were looking for a serious relationship.

You will, however, be aware if the date does not go well, and there is a good chance that you will have to confront them about it. The beginning of any relationship is the reciprocation of feelings. It's possible that you don't reciprocate your date's romantic feelings, which could be awkward. You'd have to explain why you don't like them (yikes, right?). It is also difficult to transition into a romantic situation if you have been friendly and comfortable with that person for a long time. It's difficult to break out of the buddy phase.

The riskiest aspect is that you may lose their current place in your life, regardless of whether or not you guys have a romantic relationship. At the end of the day, it is a risk that must be taken. A whopping 47 percent of users agree that it is difficult to remain friends with someone you have previously dated.

When it comes to dating and relationships, it's difficult to take a black and white approach (complexities, am I right?). At the end of the day, it all comes down to what and who we are comfortable with. Dating a stranger is definitely easier if you're looking for something exciting and non-serious, but that doesn't mean you can't find such things when dating a friend. The difference is that one has more leeway than the other. Similarly, dating an acquaintance is likely to increase your chances of getting into a relationship. It all comes down to personal preferences and choices.

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